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16 June 2009
Australian tabloid asks a question Are you in favour of same-sex marriage in Australia? As I type this, 52% of respondents say NO. What do *you* think?
Yes, they are pointless, and I don't think much of the Herald Sun as a newspaper or the people that buy it, but I am still shocked to see the direction the results are heading in.
I'm a little bit pleasantly surprised that anybody would care about my opinion of same-sex marriage in Australia. Also, the same-sex marriage debate allows for a lot of opportunities for W.C.-Fields-esque jokes that would probably be easy to misinterpret.
(I don't know much about that paper or Australian politics--why are you shocked, goshling, and what would you have expected?)
I'm in favor of same sex marriage everywhere. Regardless of whether it's a civil or religious state; as someone famous once said, "As God is my judge, God is gay." As someone else famous once said, "You don't know me; I do what I want!" And as a third, not-so-famous person once said, "Look, I'm not trying to tread on others' beliefs or feelings or inclinations, I'm just saying it's hard enough to live my own life without trying to tell you how to live yours."
A referendum on other people's love? Some people need a hobby.
The paper itself is trashy. I guess I naively thought our society was a bit more open minded (religious fundamentals have less of a presence here than in the US for one thing) and in general we're a pretty easy going nation, so without looking I would have guessed maybe a 75% pro result? I can't remember the last time I personally met someone who was openly anti-gay, so I guess I have a but of confirmation bias going on, in that people I associate with are open minded so I assume the majority of people are.
Thinking about it more, there's a lot of hate around, lots of racism and xenophobia in particular all over the news recently. There's also a lot of apathy and "not in my backyardism", so I really shouldn't be surprised when the haters come out. Now I'm going to go back into the bubble in which I've obviously been residing, where people accept & respect each other's personal lifestyle choices.
I think what is now called marriage should be called civil unions. Civil unions are legal for consenting adults whether they are straight, gay or polygamists. Civil unions will take care of the legal stuff (insurance, inheritance, etc.). Then, if you want, you can get married in your religion. However, if your religion is anti same sex or polygamist (or straight!) unions, they cannot be forced into performing marriages.
I just voted because surely, if one portion of the Australian or any other populace can tell the rest how they should conduct their consensual love lives, they won't mind me doing the same. It's now 52% on the yes side. I don't understand what the 48% or their counterpart in the United States or anywhere else are afraid of.
The paper itself is trashy. I guess I naively thought our society was a bit more open minded (religious fundamentals have less of a presence here than in the US for one thing) and in general we're a pretty easy going nation, so without looking I would have guessed maybe a 75% pro result?
I'd suspect that even the most wrong-headed US fundamentalist has probably thought more about this issue than the Hun-reading kneejerk homophobes who are doing the voting. I'm not sure if I should consider that a positive thing, or not.
That said, if the vote comes out 50/50, given the bias of the sample, I think that's pretty good.
(as an aside: if the Age could do as good AFL coverage as the Hun, I think Victoria would become a pinko bastion... people don't buy the Hun because they agree with its political slant, they buy it for the footy, and then end up (uncritically) reading the political stuff when they're bored.)