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10 February 2009

Bad dog! ... oh wait ... She didn't do anything wrong, so why is she acting like she did? [More:]

Very, very occasionally... like right now, Sky goes to her bed and lies there looking very dejected, humble, downcast. (Normally, she sticks to me like glue.) Usually, I can sort of figure out why:

* She gets a little upset if there is big-time housekeeping going on; she doesn't like things being topsyturvy and different than usual.

* A visiting dog becomes tiresome and she vahnnts to be alohne.

* She made a peepee in the house.

* She's been scolded

But sometimes (fairly rarely) none of these things has occurred, and I can't detect anything else out of the ordinary, yet she does this.

Any insights?

Some notes: She's apparently had trauma related to bathroom issues before, so she never gets punished for anything like that, she only gets praised for doing good, and potty mistakes now are just about zero. When she first came to live with us and I would let her outside in the courtyard to do her business, she would dash inside immediately afterward and cower on her bed for a bit. (Almost all potty happens on walks, but when it's raining hard, or I'm sick, or stuck waiting for a call or something, she goes in the courtyard, and she's not freaky about anything peepeepoopoo anymore.)

My first thought today was that she had gone in the house, because we had a young dog visiting Sunday who piddled inside, and since she's very determined about marking over other doggy urine in the neighborhood (yeah, she's a girl, but she marks and sometimes even lifts leg), I figured it was too much for her and she had to counter this egregious action with a little business of her own. But I searched everywhere, and didn't find any evidence of same.

Nothing different here... not even me being in any kind of bad mood unrelated to her, or sad or anything. Weather fine, all is well. If she wants something - food, attention, walk, play - she's not shy about asking. If she's bored, she dashes around the house and disembowels shoes, so it's not that. The only other thing I can think of is illness, but she seems perfectly fine, and hasn't eaten anything unusual. Oh, and in the time it took me to type all that, she's now back at my feet under the table. Little weirdo.
Maybe she just did something bad that you haven't found out about.

When I was a kid we had a cairn terrier called Buster who wasn't allowed on the sofa. So when we'd come into the living room we'd often find him slinking guiltily away with his head down and his ears flat, so my dad would feel if the sofa cushion was warm and scold him mildly for it.

He never worked out the secret of our amazing human psychic abilities. But in spite of his hangdog appearance, he can't have felt that guilty or he'd have stopped doing it...
posted by TheophileEscargot 10 February | 04:48
Heehee. Maybe this. I just can't figure out what she might have done. There was no food on the coffee table for her to steal, and this would be the main thing she's ever been scolded about, aside from being too willful and unruly on walks. In fact, she hardly ever gets scolded, but truly, she hardly ever does anything bad. / doting much?
posted by taz 10 February | 05:05
Maybe she thought of doing something that you wouldn't like and is now ashamed about it. But I have to tell you--that is one good dog you have there--extra smooches.

Or is she just trying to test you? Let's have a little bit of fun with the owner, and see how she reacts. Come on, be strong taz--we're counting on you--this is going to be a match of wits between you and her!
posted by hadjiboy 10 February | 07:57
a match of wits between you and her!

:) I won that war a long time ago. Probably on day one. Seriously, I know it's a problem sometimes with dogs, but I'm definitely and absolutely the alpha being in our house, not even a small question about that. That's why she's a calm, good doggy - there's no doubt at all about who's in charge, so she doesn't have to struggle to determine that.

I am the borg. Resistance is futile.
posted by taz 10 February | 08:22
*bows to the Queen Bunny*
posted by Specklet 10 February | 08:56
ah! yes! what I meant to say is:

I am the Bunny. Resistance is futile.
posted by taz 10 February | 09:41
"Gawd, can't a dog just be in a mood once in awhile? Does she always have to have a reason? Why can't you just leave her be? She just wants to lie there and sulk. Is that so bad? Why do you always have to be so nosy about her? Leave her alone. ... and don't say it's just PMS!" Throws shoe.

/end paraphrase of similar past encounters
posted by Ardiril 10 February | 11:29
I remember our cats would act weird before a major thunderstorm. Any weird weather coming up in your area?
posted by Melismata 10 February | 12:03
Our previous dog used to throw up in secret places. Never in plain sight - he knew it was "wrong" to vomit in the house, so he'd creep between a chair and the wall in our (seldom used) dining room, or crawl under the guest room bed. We'd find it months later when we were cleaning.
Another thing to consider is whether you have tidied Sky's favorite toys recently. Our previous dog (another rescue) would seem physically ill from time to time -- it took us ages to learn that if we tidied his favorite toy onto the top of a cupboard while cleaning then forgot to get it down, he would not let us know - he would just pine for it.
Some dogs just don't give you much of a clue - they seem to assume that they are being punished for everything they do. If Sky's previous owner was unpredictable in lashing out for things that she did (like our dog's previous owner), she could be trying to rationalize some unexpected behavior on your part to fit with something that she did. Like the time when my SO yelled when he burned his hand on the stove - our dog took to his safe place for hours after that.
posted by Susurration 10 February | 13:24
ha, Ardiril! though, yeah, I do know for sure it isn't PMS, thanks to doctor snippy.

I used to have similar vomitus discoveries occasionally with my old cat, Sussurration. Fun stuff! About the toy thing... *looks* - I don't think so. Well, I did find one, but it's one she never shows any interest in. I just gave it to her, anyway. She looked at me like, what? this thing again?

I guess she's just a woman of mystery.
posted by taz 10 February | 16:08
An international woman of mystery.

Poor puppy. My little buddy Riley behaves all guilty and scared when he hears the oven open. It took a while to connect the dots. Riley is also a certified pre-owned dogie. Maybe there is some post-traumatic thing going on here.
posted by MonkeyButter 10 February | 16:13
Olive has taken to hiding under the couch with just her nose or tail sticking out and barking playfully at whatever imaginary friend lives under there. I say this to mean that I really don't understand dogs sometimes.
posted by rhapsodie 10 February | 17:15
Sugar glider Rescued || Argentina on my mind.

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