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04 January 2009

I hate making big decisions. I have to make a big decision today, like the kind of "should I stay or move away" decision, and I'm really split right down the middle. Don't you hate it when all the usual tricks like flipping a coin and listing the pros and cons don't help? Grrrr.
If you go will it be trouble? If you stay will it be double?
sorry
posted by hellojed 04 January | 10:06
Esta undecision me molesta!

All Spanish Clash lyrics aside, big hard decisions are often just that, aren't they? I'm at a cross roads myself and I am not liking it one bit.
posted by richat 04 January | 10:53
Crossroads do suck, but it is the worst of it. Once you make a decision and move with it, you will feel much better. This is a subject upon which I can speak with a relative amount of confidence. The older I get, I can look back at the crossroads (some minor, some major), and realize that the very worst part was the decision making itself. Rarely are they easy to make, but once made, and plans are put into execution, the mental stress tends to melt away. Good luck.
posted by msali 04 January | 11:07
Ugh. It's not bad when it's 60/40 but those 50/50's or even 49/51's freaking paralyze. I don't envy you guys, but I guess just try hard to hear your guts and go with that.
posted by chewatadistance 04 January | 11:08
msali speaks true. Good thoughts to JanetLand and richat (I've been wondering about you).
posted by rainbaby 04 January | 11:09
I'm absolutely horrible with decisions. I always feel like I never have all the bits of information to make a truly informed decision (which of course, is basically impossible in most situations because other people and all that comes with them is quite confusing). Good luck.
posted by sperose 04 January | 11:38
Luckily, life is not about either/or. It's either/or/or/or/or/or/or...ad infinitum. Every choice opens more choices. Peace.
posted by mdonley 04 January | 13:30
Try choosing whatever you want to move towards, although for me, that generally means choosing ice cream. Good luck.

posted by theora55 04 January | 14:17
Bunny! OMG! || My father just tells me that they've put 300 tanks into Gaza.

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