If you go will it be trouble? If you stay will it be double?
sorry

Esta undecision me molesta!

All Spanish Clash lyrics aside, big hard decisions are often just that, aren't they? I'm at a cross roads myself and I am not liking it one bit.

Crossroads do suck, but it is the worst of it. Once you make a decision and move with it, you will feel much better. This is a subject upon which I can speak with a relative amount of confidence. The older I get, I can look back at the crossroads (some minor, some major), and realize that the very worst part was the decision making itself. Rarely are they easy to make, but once made, and plans are put into execution, the mental stress tends to melt away. Good luck.

Ugh. It's not bad when it's 60/40 but those 50/50's or even 49/51's freaking paralyze. I don't envy you guys, but I guess just try hard to hear your guts and go with that.

msali speaks true. Good thoughts to JanetLand and richat (I've been wondering about you).

I'm absolutely horrible with decisions. I always feel like I never have all the bits of information to make a truly informed decision (which of course, is basically impossible in most situations because other people and all that comes with them is quite confusing). Good luck.

Luckily, life is not about either/or. It's either/or/or/or/or/or/or...ad infinitum. Every choice opens more choices. Peace.

Try choosing whatever you want to move towards, although for me, that generally means choosing ice cream. Good luck.