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25 July 2008

Does my husband deserve to live? This is what he did:→[More:] I was mowing the yard before he came home from work...I was in the side yard, facing the back, and the mower was noisy.

He came home without me seeing, snuck up behind me and grabbed me right on my butt.

Yep, that was the scream you heard coming all the way from Fayetteville, NC.

So, jury of my fuzzy peers, what say ye?

post by: bunnyfire at: 18:07 | 30 comments

could be worse... you could have been vaccuming an inground pool. ;)

posted by kellydamnit 25 July | 18:15

Your husband still digs your sexy butt. I say nail him really hard as pleasurable revenge tonight.

(yeah, I'm like that)

posted by dabitch 25 July | 18:35

dabitch, you have never met him but I can assure you that you are his new best friend. ;-)

posted by bunnyfire 25 July | 18:43

I say you make a man out of him, lady.

posted by jonmc 25 July | 18:58

Was that you? I knew I heard something...

I'm with dabitch. What he needs is a good...stern...talking to.

posted by redvixen 25 July | 19:00

What he needs is a good...stern...talking to.

Yesssssss. Really make a clear statement.

posted by Elsa 25 July | 19:15

You need to show him who is boss and teach him the consequences of not asking "Mistress, may I."

posted by MonkeyButter 25 July | 19:16

I think what everyone is saying is that you should totally have sex with him. The penis in vagina kind.

posted by Hellbient 25 July | 19:22

This thread is--- something --without pictures.

posted by dabitch 25 July | 19:30

So what you are all saying is I should reward his naughty behavior?????

He really DID scare me, ya know. I had no clue anyone was anywhere near me and I certainly didn't know he'd gotten home.

posted by bunnyfire 25 July | 19:33

....I mean, I was moments away from being Lorena Bobbitt with the lawnmower.

posted by bunnyfire 25 July | 19:33

Get the strap on.
It's the only way he'll really understand the shock and surprise.

posted by ethylene 25 July | 19:38

*Moahahhaha* ethylene wins.

It's no fun being scared, just get revenge. My way or blow up a paper bag and bang it when he least expects it way. I'm no good at this, I'm usually the butt-grabber scaring the hell out of my mate.

posted by dabitch 25 July | 19:42

...and how do YOU get paid back dabitch??

posted by WolfDaddy 25 July | 19:46

he he he... Like I said. Thread needs pictures.

posted by dabitch 25 July | 20:04

So what you are all saying is I should reward his naughty behavior?????

Noooo, you should reward yourself for having a grabbable butt.

posted by gaspode 25 July | 20:05

Gaspode, for the win!

posted by bunnyfire 25 July | 20:07

Hell, last time I experience unexpected butt touching was from a male customer. Count yourself lucky.

posted by jonmc 25 July | 20:20

The penis in vagina kind.

Butbutbut! he didn't grab her vagina.

posted by Eideteker 25 July | 20:25

My boyfriend once tried this when we happened to be at the same subway station. Since I didn't know it was him, he got an elbow in the face and he almost fell down a flight of stairs. He was okay. But, at least now he's not worried about whether I can take care of myself!

posted by typewriter 25 July | 20:48

but of course, bunnyfire, I mean reward yourself by having lots of good sex with your hubby. It's a win-win.

posted by gaspode 25 July | 21:47

Back when I was young and uptight I used to get slightly peeved when my husband grabbed my ass or smacked it unexpectedly. Now, I let out a little yelp or giggle. This pleases him so I indulge.

posted by LoriFLA 25 July | 21:48

I wish when I'm married and mowing the lawn, my wife sneaks up behind me and grabs my buns.:)

posted by hadjiboy 26 July | 10:28

Ah, I missed the part about being outside. No, I don't know how I missed it, since I did get the part about mowing the lawn. Have I mentioned the muscle relaxants I'm taking? They, uh, relax me.

That puts a different complexion on the whole affair. The idea of being ambushed while outside is pretty unnerving, because it could be anyone grabbing you. Yikes.

The lawnmower deserves more attention, too. My partner and I are the grabbiest grabbers in Grabtown, but he knows now not to sneak up for a grab when there's anything sharp around. If I'm slicing onions or cutting my nails or doing anything else that requires a blade, he either waits 'til I'm done to grab me, or he announces "Here I am!" beforehand. (And I do mean "beforehand.")

posted by Elsa 26 July | 11:22

That puts a different complexion on the whole affair. The idea of being ambushed while outside is pretty unnerving, because it could be anyone grabbing you.

Precisely!

But, it wasn't, and all is well that ends well, and my husband should send you all flowers today.
*wink*

posted by bunnyfire 26 July | 12:52

Awwwww yes! I'm pretty sure I know what that means!

sex, I think it means they had sex.

posted by Hellbient 26 July | 14:59

*blushes, grins*

posted by bunnyfire 26 July | 18:19

yay! i love when my husband plays the grabbies.

however, i think it's time to have the talk with yours about doing it around rotating blades. bad things can happen.

rotating blades, all i'm saying.

posted by eatdonuts 27 July | 11:41

My boyfriend's really grabby and sometimes it pisses me off, but then again sometimes I like it. Guys often don't understand (or do and push it anyway) that reaction to such things is all about mood and context and you gotta judge it well if you want to do it right.

posted by goo 27 July | 14:16

Well, women need to send clear signals then, like a neon sign saying 'come grab my ass!' is 10 foot high letters, otherwise the guessing game is too nerve wracking.

posted by jonmc 27 July | 14:39

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