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16 February 2007
Flowers to themselves ...is the only link so far that I've found. I'd mentioned here that I'd heard a snatch of something on CNN about this, but I thought the phenomenon was here in the States. Anybody else know anything germane?
I'm asking because the thing is taking on some degree of legend status. First I searched Google, and only found mentions of the story on secondhand sources such as Adam Savage's blog. Then I searched CNN.com for "flowers + women" and then for "Valentine," "roses," and "Valentine's Day," and didn't find the story. Then I searched Google News and found these few stories about the U.S. Census reporting that 15% of women send flowers to themselves on Valentine's Day.
So beyond the reported census data, it's hard to tell where this 50% figure is coming from. 50% is high for any kind of purchase, and Mother's Day still out-flowers Valentine's Day by a long shot. Still, I don't even hear it as that weird a thing. Sending flowers to yourself is a pretty standard trope in magazine articles about how to give yourself a boost, and the like. I'll happily admit that I'd go ahead and send myself flowers if I wanted to, on Valentine's Day or whenever. I like flowers and have occasionally bought them for the house when I wanted to look at them, and I am quite happy on my birthday when my parents send yellow roses. But in general, if I'm going to drop a fifty on myself, roses aren't the way I'd do it. Still, I'm completely down with the idea of giving yourself a big wonderful present when you want to, especially if you want to make sure your hopes for a special day are fulfilled.
I just wrote the reporter and reader rep at the L.A. Times, the original publisher of the "I'm With Cupid" op-ed containing the 15% statistic, to ask where they got the data point.
Howdy, miko; enjoyed & found edifying your remarks in that dating thread.
Not sure where "50%" originates. I'm fairly sure I heard 22% at the end of some little throwaway-type story about V-Day on CNN Headline News on Wednesday. (I was trapped working at home, so had TV on low for company & was half trying to listen, mainly for local weather stories, while trying to parse source code. I'm not sure I was doing well at either endeavor.) I was so surprised that I waited awhile for the stories to "loop" around, but frustratingly if it came up again, I missed it.
Searching CNN.com for "valentine's day florist" was fruitless. I E'd CNN Headline News myself to see if somebody can clue me in.
The notion of it seemed so outrageous that it made me think of the old quip "47% of all statistics are made up out of whole cloth on the spot."
Men do most of the flower giving on Valentine’s Day. Men buy 65% of these flowers. If you just look at roses, that jumps to 75%.
The majority of women who buy Valentine’s Day flowers give them to their mother (32%), husband/significant other (24%), self (22%), daughter (16%), or friend 14%).
Florists are expecting to sell close to 200 million roses this Valentine's Day.
I send flowers to myself at work at least four times a year (I'm a girl--it used to be embarrassing to admit I sent them myself, but I'm over that now); my guy sends them to me about four times a year, too. (I send them to him maybe once a year). I never send flowers to myself on "special" occasions though.
I buy them for the house 4-5x a month. Flowers are pretty.