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05 October 2006

Mississippi goddamn is a great song, but it's not what this post is about.[More:]I was at the bus station today, when someone called my name. I looked around and there was this guy who was strangely familiar but whom I couldn't recognize as I have a terrible memory for faces. He said that he's an old classmate of mine, and that he isn't surprised that I didn't recognize him as noone ever does. So we talked a bit and I tried to guess his name. He refused to give it out, though. He did hint that he's studying English Literature at the university.

When I got home fifteen minutes ago, I first looked through my class album but didn't find him there. Then it dawned on me. I switched on my computer and went to the university home page to see if I can find him in the list of students studying English Lit. And I found out that a) my earlier guess had been correct and b) the cheeky bastard had lied to me about his identity. Goddamn I'm so angry now I could beat him to pulp! Or maybe not -- he's bigger and stronger than me. I'm a bit angry with myself as well, as he was one of the few people from my class I would actually have loved to meet and talk to. He left our school after tenth grade (I think), which is why I had forgotten him. My only consolation is that I'm not alone in this.
So you know where he's studying, and it's near you? It should be easy to track him down. Have a beer with him and tell him that you wanted to beat him to a pulp for messing with your head, but that you also thought he was one of the few people from your class you would actually have loved to meet and talk to.

I'd say this guy feels neglected and overlooked. He was probably playing some sort of game with you by denying his identity (though he's most likely actually stoked that you did know who he was). Meet up with him again, and if he's cool, then you've reconnected with an old school friend who is worth getting to know. Or, if he starts playing more mind games with you, you can see that there's a reason people avoid him. The amount of investment you're willing to make is up to you.

I don't see quite why you're upset about this. But I'm a bit stupid about these things.
posted by GeckoDundee 05 October | 09:05
don't see quite why you're upset about this.

Well, I can be weird like that sometimes.
posted by Daniel Charms 05 October | 09:33
That would probably piss me off too, DC. I don't like being played with, and it's pretty obvious that's what he was doing.
posted by muddgirl 05 October | 09:51
Sorry, I can see exactly why you would be upset about it. I feel so stupid. I mean, there is a way you can look at it that doesn't need to involve your being upset. Does that make sense?
posted by GeckoDundee 05 October | 10:50
I mean, there is a way you can look at it that doesn't need to involve your being upset. Does that make sense?

It makes perfect sense. I could have, you know, just shrugged and told him (and myself) that if I don't remember his face, then perhaps it's because he wasn't worth remembering.
posted by Daniel Charms 05 October | 11:02
You're a Mississippi Goddamn Tease for not including a YSI with a title like that! ;-)
posted by Triode 05 October | 14:54
Three Point Status Report || Sheesh.

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