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man, I saw something like this, maybe on metafilter or waxy and now I have no idea where to find it. It had more variety, although these are pretty good.
I was about to catch a plane, many years ago, and right next to the duty free shops and the newsstands there was a little stand with a most elegant and well put-together lady in her late sixties, gathering donations for AIDS research. I took the time to chat for a while with her -- I had a few minutes -- and we discussed the progress in research, the then-new retroviral medications, and during a lively conversation that must have been going on for about five minuted she simply mentioned, in passing, but really lightly, without beating me on the head with that, how she wished those meds existed a few years earlier, for her "boy". then she kept on talking about new tests, and how young people need to be more careful with "protection", and so forth.
I gave what I could, and she pinned a little red ribbon on the left lapel of my jean jacket, "right over your heart". I told her something lame, like, "I really hope they find a cure very soon", because I just lacked the balls to say what I thought, ie, "I'm really sorry about your son".
and there was also another thing, that I figured out as I said goodbye -- she totally looked like my mom.
I've washed that jean jacket quite a few times now, but I've never removed that ribbon. I'd feel very guilty if I removed it before they've found a cure.
I hate to sound like all the paranoid anti-go-with-the-crowd folks, but I have to say that things like this ribbon stuff have always both rubbed me very much the wrong way and given me the heebie-jeebies. So when I see anything that's one of those "here's my cliched symbol demonstrating I'm one of the right-thinking people", I get sorta pissed off. Left or right or whatever.
By the way, and not coincidentally, I am completely opposed to bumper stickers.