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But don't tell anyone.Last year, I went to Vegas with my college roommate, and we had a blast. We're not the partying/gambling types, but really enjoyed just walking and seeing the sites and people watching.
And I discovered something while I was there: the combination of hot weather, beautiful desert landscape, and benign pampering from the hotel (someone to make my bed every day!) is EXACTLY what I need to regroup and refresh. And despite loving all my friends, I also need to be alone during this refreshment. So I'm staying at the Bellagio for a few days, where I will eat crepes and go to the buffet and do exactly what I want, when I want. This is what I need.
But, my best friends will be hurt that I didn't include them. And everyone else will judge me on such a frivolous trip (you're either a bad person for not saving your money, and/or not using that money to save the whales). But well, sorry, it's just something I need and want to do. SO THERE. I'm telling you guys, because I know you won't betray my secret.
That sounds wonderful and refreshing! I am all for solo vacations; they are just so rejuvenating. Have a wonderful time, and I promise, I won't tell anyone.
I have a friend who does exactly that almost every year on his birthday: not a partier/gambler, just enjoys going. It sounds like a great trip, Melismata. Bon voyage.