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28 November 2012

So my oldest.... [More:] If you click the link, it takes you back to the last installment about the saga of my son. He had been living in Albany, NY, but missed Texas and moved back in with us.

He looked for a job rather listlessly. The plan was to get a job, then pay for a pharmacy technician course to a get a job in that field. After persistently not working, he finally got the me and my wife to offer to pay for the pharmacy tech course.

He finished the course pretty quickly, took the state certification exam and passed a few months ago. The online school he took the course through said they would help him find and "externship" when he was done, but then a few months passed and nothing.... until today.

He got a call and they found him a placement at a pharmacy a couple miles from our house. He starts Thursday. The way the externship works is that it is four weeks long, unpaid.

The woman that called him about the placement said that usually the externship rolls into a full-time gig, and sometimes they offer the paid position after only a couple of weeks. It's a 24 hour pharmacy, and he will start out Mon-Fri from 3 pm to 11 pm. He's a night owl, so that's perfect for him. If he got his choice it would either be that or the overnight shift, so he's pretty happy about that.

Now.... I just hope he's able to get the job and hold it for a while. Color me... cautiously optimistic.
*fingers crossed and good vibes sent*
posted by arse_hat 28 November | 01:37
As a father and a former "complicated" son I feel for both of you.
posted by arse_hat 28 November | 01:38
I hope this is a good fit for him. It sometimes takes people a while to find the groove that fits them.
posted by Senyar 28 November | 04:11
Another step forward! Yay!

I know a younger guy who took a while to drift into adulthood, but now, at 26, he's finally at the stage of good and stable employment plus future plans have taken hold. He was always smart but very unmotivated and disengaged. Today he's part of the greater world and pleasant to be around.

It takes some of us longer it seems.
posted by mightshould 28 November | 06:24
I took forever to get my life going; it took me sixteen years to get my BS degree. Along the way I had crappy jobs, my girlfriend got pregnant, got married, got divorced, etc. I didn't actually start my career until I was almost 34 years old.

Now of course I'm worried about my college-age son getting his act together. :)
posted by octothorpe 28 November | 07:22
Good luck to him tomorrow!
I know it sounds silly and obvious, but if he hasn't had a "real" job before, it might be helpful to let him know how even the best jobs have incredibly tedious times and frustrating times, and even if you are doing something you like there will be parts that you don't like.
Also to stick it out.
In my first permanent 9-6 job after college took me about 3 months to adjust to the every-day-ness of it. You mean I really have to go back already? It feels like I was just there! When do I have time for me? All that stuff.
Having temp jobs and summer jobs and contract work before didn't prepare me for the endless slog that is working.
Someone telling me that I would make it work and not be so tired one day would have been nice. I did stick it out anyway, but my friends around me who had alternative jobs didn't understand why I did, and weren't that supportive.
posted by rmless2 28 November | 10:10
Yay!
posted by Ardiril 28 November | 10:40
How great! And I second everything rmless2 says.
posted by bearwife 28 November | 12:01
I second everything about late bloomers. One of my friends drifted for quite a long time, and now gets paid much more than me. Last visit, he offered to pay for dinner because he'd just gotten a very hefty raise. I couldn't argue with that.
posted by halonine 30 November | 15:45
Thanks for the encouragement. A lot of my (Texas redneck conservative Republican) acquaintances think I should just kick him out and not worry about him. I can't do that. Hopefully he get the hang of it.
posted by Doohickie 30 November | 22:19
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