In need of some reassurance or advice So I made the mistake of dating a friend for about 3 weeks. While he seemed sane during the year when we were friends,→[More:] once we began dating he became increasingly obsessive about me. He read rejection into everything. Two weeks ago, he came over for lunch on a Saturday and then had to leave to drive to an appointment in CT. He seemed happy during the lunch, but 8 hours later I got an irate phone call about how I "drove him out of the apartment" even though he was the one who had to leave.

Finally, last week, when I received a series of increasingly hysterical emails over the course of 2 hours, I broke things off with him. He basically blamed me for the failure of the relationship and I told him, considering his attitude, I didn't think we could be friends at the current time.

While he hasn't contacted me directly since then, he's started checking my blog every hour. This isn't an exaggeration. Today he spent over 3 hours on my blog. His behavior is making me nervous, and I'm not sure if I should do anything or just hope that he gets over this on his own.

I do hate talking about relationship issues in forums like this, but, as I said, I feel really uncomfortable with his behavior. I figure you all would have some insight/advice into the situation, and I could really use it.

Thanks.