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09 January 2009

An odd little story about my dog... My dog is not a cat chaser, or a cat lover, or a cat hater. She basically has no opinion about cats. [More:]

If they are right in front of her, she's probably likely to try to check them about a bit, and I wouldn't be surprised if she was willing to be indulgent toward a friendly overture - but mostly she just ignores them. There are a lot of cats in the neighborhood, and many of them know her by sight, know she's not a threat and are just chill. Some will never be chill and they get all back-arched and glare-y, and some are cautious but optimistic.

A couple of days ago, I saw a very young kitten with its mother, and when the kitten saw Sky, her eyes got huge, and she kept looking back and forth at Sky, then at her mom, like, well? what the fuck do we do now???! That was funny.

But for the most part, the ones we see on our regular neighborhood walk don't pay much attention to her, and she never pays any attention at all to them. Until yesterday.

Yesterday we walked by a house where a young brindle cat was sitting on the doorstep. And Sky stopped dead in her tracks, and just stared and stared at this perfectly normal little cat. And the little cat just stared back. I don't think she was frightened because there were a million places she could have dashed to, but I'm not sure.

Well, this went on for quite a long time - Sky staring at the cat, the cat staring back, and me staring at both of them, utterly puzzled. But finally I tug on the leash let's go! - and Sky doesn't budge. Very unusual. So I tug a little harder and do the kissykissy sound that she pretty much never ignores... and she braces her legs and refuses to move.

So now I'm really baffled. I just look at both of them staring at each other, nobody making any kind of move to get closer or further, and I don't see anything at all to account for this behavior. Eventually, though, I kind of drag-tug Sky along, with her totally resisting the whole time, and we get to the end of the street and turn the corner... and she's turning around looking back the whole time.

I mean she never does this... no matter how utterly fascinating or tempting something is, once we get out of sight of it, it's pretty much like it never existed. But not this time. This time she's trying to turn around and go back, or else glancing backwards the whole entire time, until we get inside our gate.

Tres bizarre. Normally, I would guess that no matter how unlikely, this is a cat she has known before, but the cat is clearly too young for that. We've had Sky for eight months, and I don't think the cat is much older than that (not to mention that Sky came from a very long way away from where we live).

V. thinks the cat may look like one she was friends with in the past, but we've seen other brindle cats and she didn't act that way. And wouldn't the smell be the major signifier for a dog?

Anyway. A doggy mystery.
Come to think of it, the only time she's ever acted remotely like that is when she has been walking with me and V. together, and we separate... he has to go somewhere, and I have to go somewhere else, and one of us takes the dog. That very much freaks her out... don't break up the pack, no! no!
posted by taz 09 January | 06:04
So odd! I have no explanation.
posted by Specklet 09 January | 08:08
Love. I used to have a tabby cat named Basho and my close friends had a pit bull named Jack. They brought Jack over to my house one day and Jack and Basho fell in love at first sight. And when I say love, I mean LOVE. They were immediately inseparable; Basho couldn't stop purring, they played for hours and finally collapsed in a heap together and slept. And every time Jack visited after that, it was the same. We had a dog - Toby - too, and Basho didn't give a fig for him nor he for Basho. Jack and Toby were friends but once Jack met Basho, he didn't want to play with anyone else.

Actually we had four cats at that point and Toby and every so often he would look around, heave a martyred sigh, and try to make all the cats behave properly. He was mostly German shepherd and had some martial Prussian standards that had to be upheld. Jack lived with cats as well and ignored them. Jack and Basho, though, just fell madly in interspecies love at first sight and ever after. Basho is gone now and Jack is very, very old and lies by the fire and dreams. Of Basho, I hope.
posted by mygothlaundry 09 January | 09:40
maybe! And not just interspecies love, but lesbian interspecies love, as far as I can tell. Aren't all brindle/tortoiseshell cats supposed to be female? Or am I making that up?

I'm going to see if we can encounter this kit again - it's only one street away - and if it seems like a love bomb, maybe I'll adopt her. I'd have to try to see if she's actually anybody's beloved cat (probably not so much; many people sort of feed cats that hang out, and it's not exactly a pet thing, more like a casual neighbor thing), but if this amazing behavior is repeated, and she isn't a pet (no collar, so I doubt it) - well, who am I to divert the course of true love?
posted by taz 09 January | 10:04
Ah, a story of true love! Now, that's 100% beautiful! And, maybe it will have a happy ending too.
posted by mightshould 09 January | 10:08
When I was in Georgia this summer I saw a wild little mangy street dog repeatedly sit outside an apartment building where it would howl up at the pet lab, and the lab would respond and do everything it could to get out of the window or out onto the balcony where it would howl back.
Very Romeo and Juliet, I thought.
posted by rmless2 09 January | 10:23
and if it seems like a love bomb, maybe I'll adopt her.

OMG DO IT!!


I'm going to visit some orphan kittens this evening. I think they'll probably be coming home with me. You want to see a picture, don't you. Well, okay, here's one of them.
posted by mudpuppie 09 January | 11:58
Jiji! omg, She's irresistible!

I really MIGHT DO IT, if it works out that way... until now I've been afraid to get a cat because my upstairs neighbor has two, and they are very territorial and not afraid to attack. In tandem. But now it turns out that the third (top)-floor neighbors are moving, and they are taking one of the upstairs neighbor's cat with them. It's all very complicated, but one of my upstairs neighbor's cats is very needy and also hates her boyfriend. Hates.

Over the past year or so, the cat has been comforted by the top-floor neighbors... to the degree that they feed him, got a bed for him, put in a cat access door, have a drinking water fountain for him, and take him to the vet whenever anything's wrong... so now they're moving, and they told my upstairs neighbor that they want to take him with them, and she agreed, because while she really loves him, she loves her boyfriend more, and the two were never going to get along.

Which leaves only one upstairs cat... and one upstairs cat against one downstairs dog united with one downstairs cat is much more do-able. hmmm.

We'll see!
posted by taz 09 January | 12:22
Maybe the cat was Sky's partner in a former life before they reincarnated to cats&dogs? That is so odd.
posted by dabitch 09 January | 12:51
I've had a whole lot of dogs and cats over the years and aside from the occasional squabble, the cats studiously ignore the dogs and the dogs carefully avoid the cats. However, our latest kitty is completely different. The day we brought her home, she ran straight for our giant lab and wrapped her body around his face (in a fuzzy alien face-hugger way) while purring madly. The dog sort of freaked out because his prior advances on our cats did.not.end.well. but he's an adaptable sort and used the opportunity to lick her all over. Now they are buds. Total buds. Delia the cat runs after Riddick the dog all day, they wrestle, they snuggle, they steal food from each other.

I wondered if Delia just had a thing for dogs but she's been very typically cat (arch back, puff fur, hiss loudly) toward visiting dogs so it's just this one instant connection she made.
posted by jamaro 09 January | 13:24
jamaro, your animals are beautiful.
posted by mudpuppie 09 January | 13:26
Thanks. I try to remember that when I'm scooping massive amounts of poo.

That little grey kitten looks like trouble with the extreme muzzlepoof and her color contrasting whiskers. I'd adopt her in a heartbeat.
posted by jamaro 09 January | 13:33
taz - another vote for LOVE LOVE LOVE.

mudpuppie - Jiji looks so much like Abigail:

≡ Click to see image ≡

You can't see her white chin, but trust me, it's there.
posted by deborah 09 January | 14:45
Aren't all brindle/tortoiseshell cats supposed to be female?

Almost always, taz. Calico cats too.
posted by Specklet 09 January | 16:38
So no takers on Calgary or Ottawa, but || THIS IS A SHOUTING THREAD

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