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Mygoth - I am so with you right now, and I know exactly where you're at, because the exact same thing happened with me and my mom.
I can feel it all with you.
You are a strong, strong person who showed deep and abiding love at the best time, you were the guardian at the gate that you spoke of, and there was no one better to be the bridge for your mother right then.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom, MGL. You gave her a wonderful final gift as she went. Be good to yourself and know that lots of people are thinking of you.
What a beautiful way to say goodbye to your mother. I'm so glad she had you and your brother there. I'm so sorry, and I hope you feel supported and loved.
I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm glad you were able to be there to say goodbye and to make that incredibly difficult decision to let her go. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Oh, I'm so sorry about this! MGL, you are in my thoughts. You spoke beautifully at the end; I'm sure that was a great comfort to your mom. My condolences to you and all your family.
Thanks, y'all. I really appreciate all the kind comments and words and emails; they mean a lot to me. The memorial service was yesterday; it was beautiful and we followed it with a wake that went on into the wee hours. I'm going to miss her very much; she was an amazing and wonderful lady. I think I'm still in shock; I just don't believe she's gone. It's going to be a rough for a long time.