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21 June 2008
old flame: extinguished Someone I was hoping to see in the next few months...is seeing someone else. Aw man.
It is, unfortunately, one of those chalk-it-up-to-Fate deals.
The good thing about that is that capricious Fate, three weeks from now, could go on a bender, sleep with a string of really inappropriate (and really smelly) people, and ultimately realize that its whole life path, and all its decisions, were wrong. And then -- BINGO -- you'll get a really delightful call out of the blue from that someone you hoped to be with a couple months from now.
And the fact that it's so hot out right now totally ups your chances of Fate freaking out. So don't despair. Move on, and quickly. Good things will happen. Maybe even better things.
mudpuppie's characterization of fickle Fate is right on.
If there's anything that living on earth just a couple shy of 40 years has taught me, it's this: You Never Know. And also this: You'd Never Believe it, BUt...
In fact, I just spent a delightful weekend with someone I swore I'd hate forever because she's all coupled up with a man I was until recently in love with!
Strange times... I get along with her like a house on fire now!
Hope that a smashing man comes along and wipes the other one out of the ballpark.