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05 June 2008

The truth about internet dating Funny/sad. via Neatorama.
Funny, sad, but not always the truth.

Met wife online. Via theonion.com, even.
posted by grabbingsand 05 June | 10:24
I, too, met (and married) the woman of my dreams via an online personal ad. Before that, I had a pretty good track record, as well. Sure, not all of the matches worked, or even actually happened IRL (man, I have some stories!), but, overall, things worked out pretty well.
posted by mrmoonpie 05 June | 10:30
Five year anniversary to my wife coming up and we met via internet personals. I'm not sure how else you can meet people, it's not like I know very many single people.
posted by octothorpe 05 June | 10:57
For me if you were to change the first panel to a phone or in-person conversation it would be just about the same process as the one depicted in the link. So it's not really saying anything special about online dating and given the wealth of counter examples not even true.
posted by GreenWithYou 05 June | 11:52
Is there anyone, since 1995, that has met their partner/spouse OTHER than online?

I mean, my marriage predates the Internet, but if I were looking around today, I would not have a clue about doing it other than online. . .
posted by danf 05 June | 11:54
Oh it's so true :-(

Only met disaster through online dating websites.
posted by cmonkey 05 June | 12:06
(me, danf? of course I met him at work, which is the other main venue...)
posted by gaspode 05 June | 12:18
Me, danf, but of course we met in college, which is the third main venue... :)
posted by muddgirl 05 June | 12:43
College and work aren't very productive to dating if you're a straight guy and are a comp-sci/engineering major. Both undergrad, grad school and both of my workplaces have been overwhelmingly male, I think that my current office is about 10% Women.
posted by octothorpe 05 June | 13:00
Women don't like me on the Internet, I have much better luck in person.
posted by Meatbomb 05 June | 13:52
Also me, danf, but we met in the mens bathroom at a baseball game, which is the fourth main venue . . . :\
posted by MonkeyButter 05 June | 14:26
I met mine at work.

I met my ex-husband just before your cutoff year at an adult-ed french class.
posted by JanetLand 05 June | 14:36
I wonder if the title "The truth about internet dating" was added later... doesn't seem to have much to do with the cartoon.

Not sure where it came from. Looks a bit XKCDish but I don't remember it and can't find it on a search. The comments seem to think it comes from 4chan.
posted by TheophileEscargot 05 June | 14:49
College and work aren't very productive to dating if you're a straight guy and are a comp-sci/engineering major.

Very few of my friends and girlfriends from college or grad school did I meet through my subject.
posted by grouse 05 June | 16:06
Also me, danf! We were introduced in a bar by a friend of my sister (the fifth main venue...).

My dad met his wife on the internet, and seems happy. Any blokes looking for women at work should work in disability services - guaranteed at least 95% women.
posted by goo 05 June | 16:36
College and work aren't very productive to dating if you're a straight guy and are a comp-sci/engineering major. Both undergrad, grad school and both of my workplaces have been overwhelmingly male, I think that my current office is about 10% Women.

Ah, but if you're a straight woman, the odd's are pretty good.
posted by muddgirl 05 June | 16:50
wow, where did that apostrophe come from?
posted by muddgirl 05 June | 16:51
But the goods are odd?
posted by matthewr 05 June | 17:29
But the goods are odd?
posted by matthewr 05 June | 17:30
Met Mr. V through the newspaper personals in 1999. Neither one of us owned a computer at that point.

(Met my first husband at at tattoo parlor. Not recommended)
posted by redvixen 05 June | 18:45
I met Mrs. Plinth at a party. Smitten, smitten, I tell you.
posted by plinth 05 June | 19:07
Ah, but if you're a straight woman, the odd's are pretty good.

Yea but most of the straight women that I've worked with have been in arranged marriages.
posted by octothorpe 05 June | 20:33
I met my girl at college. I was the prof.
posted by arse_hat 05 June | 23:06
Met my husband when I was drunk in a punk bar in the backstreets of Shinjuku.
posted by gomichild 05 June | 23:55
Met her at work, but we didn't get together until after she quit. Kids, take a tip from your ol' uncle b - never, ever fish off the company pier. It's just a bad idea.
posted by bmarkey 05 June | 23:58
I'm going to start a novel with gomi's met-story - the exact words.
posted by taz 06 June | 00:59
I just got engaged to a wonderful woman I met on Match.com.

That site was not my favorite at the time but it did the job in spades at the end of the day.

The great thing about online dating is that, to some extent, the people who do it have to make a deliberate choice that they want to seek someone out and make something happen. That's square one. One of the reasons my relationship is working is that we're both clear on the fact that we want one and are willing to work to make it happen and succeed.

When you meet that charming friend-of-a-friend at so-and-so's party and pursue her like you're supposed to in everyone's offline-dating fantasy, you find out half the time s/he's completely not interested in anything / was drunk that night / etc.

I dunno.... I'm essentialising too much. Online dating comes with no guarantees. But it did allow me to cast my net a bit wider and it never interfered with meeting people the old fashioned way.

How does the fantasy in the comic NOT relate to offline dating, too? That dreamy fantasy is what keeps most people going, online or off.
posted by scarabic 06 June | 01:09
My _parents_ met online!!!


heh heh, I'm not really that young. he's my stepdad, really. But they're such a funny, perfect old pair I can't help but feel proud.
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur 06 June | 02:28
Why do police || "You(,) Like Me"

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