My 18 year old stepdaughter moved out.. →[More:]She was caught in yet another lie, and continued to give us grief!! She graduates high school next month (though she still has a year of cosmetolgy vo tech to attend) and asked for a trip to Texas with her best friend. They were going to vist a family friend of Ashley's (her best friend) who moved down there. We thought it would be fun for her, and bought tickets. Fast forward a week. Ashley's mom stopped by; the family they were going to see still live here in Jersey; turns out that Ashley thinks she's in love with a 15 year old girl she met over the internet, and wanted to go to Texas to meet her. Our rocket-scientist Brittney was supposedly going to stay with a guy friend "who used to live here", though I find that doubtful, and his family. Not to mention that both of these bubbleheads are 18, and if Ashley has any contact with a 15 year old, it's child endangerment at the least. No remorse from Britt; she gives us attitude and STILL expected to go to Texas!!!!! She doesn't get it that lies don't get rewards. Then she informed us that neither one of them was planning to come back. I'm guessing they were planning on mooching off people down there. Combined, they have a brain the size of a grape. Neither one has a driver's license; Britt has no ambition. We asked her what about vocational school..she actually said she figured she would transfer to a votech down there!!!!!!! We told her to cut the attitude; if she couldn't, well, then maybe she'd be better off elsewhere. So she said fine, packed her stuff, called a friend, and was gone in two hours. The complete lack of remorse floors me. Especially when she rolled her eyes after her father told her she was breaking his heart. And if he gets sick because of this...I will never, NEVER be able to forgive her. I don't get it. She has everything she needs, we don't ask much but getting her to help out around here is like pulling teeth. She is only nice when she wants something, otherwise she comes at us on the offensive. And the worst part is that I think she's like her mom (whom I've never met) in that she's a pathological liar, and forms no attatchments to anyone. She is, at least, going to finish school; she told her brother that she'd see him there. Of course, she told him we kicked her out - I'm quite sure that's the story she's telling the family of the girl she went to stay with, too. Her brother knows better; he even said she needs to grow up. It's like she's 18 going on 13. Maybe this will help her, I don't know. All I know is that I could spit nails at this point. I'm so sick of being used and disrespected, and watching her disrespect her father. And anyone who hurts him this much, is very low on my list.

Sorry for the rant, guys. I needed to get this out.