In which I break the rules... I said
this. But now I want you to
look at this message from Nickyskye via mefi projects. Many of you know and care about Nicky, and will want to see this if you haven't.
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Sorry that I'm being inconsistent, but I always intended to have a measure of flexibility in this; I didn't want a gift-y culture to develop here in which people would feel pressure to buy things for other members, and I didn't want somebody coming along and thinking, "oh look at all the touchy-feely bunnyschmucks - I bet they'd be an easy mark for a sob story."
I still feel this way, but I also feel there's a sweet spot for doing good - and at the moment the only filter I have for that is my own judgment, though if we wanted to organize something much more member-driven to evaluate cases, I'd be pleased, and have some ideas we could discuss.