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25 February 2008

Shitty, crappy, awful morning Got 3 awful bits of news this morning. [More:]1. My good friend's Mom died this morning. She had cancer, and was dying, and my friend was heading down to MD today anyway, but her Mom died before she got there.
2. Other friend had a miscarriage last week. She was 2 weeks further on than me, and hadn't told anyone that she was pregnant yet. she's really torn up, because they were trying for nearly a year. I still haven't told her that I'm pregnant, and now I'm not going to for a while.
3. Found out husband's favourite uncle in end-stage lung cancer. Palliative care only from now on.

I probably need some whuffles right about now.
::whuffles::
posted by ThePinkSuperhero 25 February | 12:47
Oh, gaspode I am so, so sorry. Please, please take very good care of yourself right now.

And head down here for lunch.

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Image nicked from Doohickie
posted by essexjan 25 February | 12:48
Holy shit, gaspode. I'm so sorry.

*HUG* *WHUFFLE*
posted by BoringPostcards 25 February | 12:49
I'm sorry, gaspode.
posted by box 25 February | 12:49
*hugs*
*whuffles*

I'm sorry.
posted by occhiblu 25 February | 12:52
Man, 'spode super bummer of a Monday. I'm really sorry for you.
posted by richat 25 February | 13:02
(((gaspode)))

**whuffles**

I'm so sorry!

((**extra wuffles**))

and congrats on your pregnancy- I didn't know!

posted by small_ruminant 25 February | 13:04
So sorry, gaspode.
posted by Hellbient 25 February | 13:04
So sorry, honey, what a shit way to start the week. Thoughts & light to you & yours.
posted by mygothlaundry 25 February | 13:14
Oh wow, that's terrible news and an awful way to start your week. They say bad news comes in threes, so hopefully this was a one hit of yuk. *whuffles*
posted by TheDonF 25 February | 13:17
*whuffles bigtime*
posted by rainbaby 25 February | 13:19
Bummer bummer bummer, condolences, and strength. Treat yourself lovingly today so you can be there for the others.
posted by Miko 25 February | 13:23
That's an awful day. My condolescences. I really feel for your friend whose mom died -- my mom died only three weeks after a cancer diagnosis, but she went into the hospital just as we were going to go visit her and died the next day. Her last words to husband and I were, "You guys go out and enjoy yourselves."
posted by lleachie 25 February | 13:30
Awww .. I'm so sorry. That's a lot of sadness to absorb all at once.

The pregnancy thing is delicate, isn't it? I've been on both sides - been the person wanting to be pregnant and having to scrounge up some happiness for a friend who got there before me. And in your position - the one with happy news, afraid to share it with someone experiencing a loss. It's tough. Now I'm a little sad.

"whuffles to you"

posted by Kangaroo 25 February | 13:30
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posted by seanyboy 25 February | 13:32
I'm sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself.
posted by bmarkey 25 February | 13:33
Gosh what a triple whammy, gaspode, I'm sorry.
posted by chewatadistance 25 February | 13:42
I'm sorry.

posted by jason's_planet 25 February | 13:51
oh that's really crap, gaspode, I'm sorry. I'm English so not very good at public demonstrations of affection but have some whuffles nonetheless.

((whuffles))
posted by altolinguistic 25 February | 14:09
(((gaspode)))

**whuffles**

Congrats on the 'pode baby!
posted by lysdexic 25 February | 14:23
So sorry that you and yours are hurting, gaspode. *hugs*
posted by initapplette 25 February | 14:24
gasopde, that's a lot of sad news to take in on one day. I'm so sorry.
posted by LoriFLA 25 February | 14:38
Man, 'pode. One of those things would have been enough. I'm so sorry.
posted by mudpuppie 25 February | 14:40
ouch.
::hugs::
::whuffles::
posted by casarkos 25 February | 14:50
Take care of yourself, gaspode. Hug some people and some puppies as soon as you can.
posted by iconomy 25 February | 14:52
You know what? You guys rule. I feel a lot better reading your posts.

thanks lysdexic and s_r!

Yeah, Kangaroo, it is a tricky sitch. Also, there's another friend, my bestest friend from college who is going through endless IVF etc. and she, of all our friends, is the one that has wanted kids for the longest time. haven't told her yet, and feel kind of guilty as we got pregnant first month trying. Illogical of me, but there you go


posted by gaspode 25 February | 14:53
That is one hell of a day. Big hugs to you gaspode.
posted by arse_hat 25 February | 15:19
Sorry to hear about this gaspode.
posted by plep 25 February | 15:47
(((gaspode)))
posted by deborah 25 February | 16:17
bleesus! sorry to hear all the bad word, take much care?
posted by Mrs.Pants 25 February | 16:19
oh wow, this is the worst Monday ever. Whuffles your way with extra syrup. I dunno if whuffles have syrup but I think we need syrup. and sugar. and chocolate. and whipped cream. and hugs on top. lots of hugs on top. a generous helping of whuffles and hugs. your passenger will appreciate it gaspode, eat up.
posted by dabitch 25 February | 16:48
also, gaspode, you're not illogical for feeling guilty since you knew about your mates IVF troubles, just very empathetic and more people should be. Extra whuffles for that!
posted by dabitch 25 February | 16:50
What small_ruminant and lysdexic said. Sorry about the shitty news, but big congrats on the bun.
posted by danostuporstar 25 February | 17:08
*soft gentle whuffles*
posted by sperose 25 February | 17:37
*backs up semi load of whuffles*

Hugs too.
posted by bunnyfire 25 February | 17:44
hugs, whuffles, and sympathy. sometimes i wish i could reach through the computer (like bill cosby coming through the phone in ghost dad), only to hug people instead of threaten them. like now.
posted by brina 25 February | 18:20
*hugs* and whuffles to you, gaspode.
posted by sisterhavana 25 February | 19:05
What an awful start to the week, gaspode. I'm so sorry to hear this! Sending you great big whuffles and hugs, and tissues if you need them. No one ever cries alone around me.


Cancer bites.
posted by redvixen 25 February | 19:59
Sorry, and that always seems the way with people who want kids.
People i knew of were having horrible times trying, from years of nothing to multiple miscarriages, while everyone else was accidentally getting knocked up yet again. It's touchy. In smaller confines of the unavoidable, they'd end up knowing anyway so i just fell to whether they would wanted to be the one to let them know before they found out.
It's odd how people plan things and think things will follow suit, and even odder that sometimes they do.
As often as they don't are the numbers of people who understand.
posted by ethylene 25 February | 21:16
Image nicked from Doohickie
Thanks for the credit, especially since you even linked to my photobucket.


I'm sorry, Gaspode.... that's terrible news all around.
posted by Doohickie 26 February | 00:13
Oh no. I'm so sorry.
posted by tangerine 26 February | 00:53
Sorry, gaspode.
posted by chrismear 26 February | 01:11
yrrr, gaspode!*HUGE HUGS TO YOU AND MR.G*
posted by brujita 26 February | 01:15
Ach. How awful. A million whuffles, honey; please take care of yourself.
posted by taz 26 February | 02:04
My cat and I are sending you the biggest, broadest whuffle ever, (((((gaspode)))))).
posted by hadjiboy 26 February | 03:30
Aw 'pode and Mr 'Pode, sorry to hear all this! HUGS
posted by Wilder 26 February | 09:54
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