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18 February 2008

Set me up with some basic puppy skillz? I'm going to be puppysitting, omg, and I'd like a bit of veteran advice - probably on an ongoing basis once he arrives, but definitely in advance. [Length/rambling warning!][More:]

This boy is four or five months old, and I think has had almost no training, so he can't help me much. Our friend ended up getting him without really planning for it (when the dog of a friend of hers had a litter), and she left not long afterwards on a planned three-week trip, during which time the puppy stayed with her dad in the country.

Now just a few weeks after returning, she has another trip, and I'll be taking care of Branco (I offered) because her dad is ill and not at the top of his game right now. He'll be with me at least a couple of weeks (the dog, not the dad).

Here's as much of the situation as I know: the puppy (from what I've witnessed) is very relaxed, very friendly, very calm, and very, very quiet (I've never heard him bark). He doesn't seem at all nervous about new places or people. This I've seen from first-hand experience over several-hour periods, and is also what our friend relates.

He's part some kind of breed, apparently, and part friendly stranger. My friend is saying one of the parents is a Brussels Griffon, and it seems to me like one might be a variety of poodle. At four months, he's about a foot long; I have no idea what his adult size will be.

Anyway, the main thing is that I don't think he's been leash trained, and I do want to take him out (but never off-leash, don't worry!) ... so obviously, I can take him to park areas, and I'd like to see what happens if we just go out for a walk around the block, but if possible I'd like to take him with me when I go to the neighborhood grocery, for example, and pretty much whenever I go out for short errands. If I can.

I'm thinking that I will try putting him in a wide, shallow, shoulder bag with towel padding when going inside, since he doesn't have any experience with "stay" and "sit" and is just a wee babe (but not nervous or antsy about being picked up or carried - that I've experienced).

Also, he's not really house-trained, but not really not house trained. My friend lives in an apartment with a large balcony, and he does his business mostly outside on the balcony (don't get a bad image; she's super clean and a mad housekeeper), so I don't think he's had that much experience doing the walky-peepee-poopoo thing, and if possible, I'd like to mainly do things that way.

But we do have a small terrace area where that can happen, and a larger downstairs courtyard area (but if the upstairs cats come for a rumble, I don't give him much of a chance - so I'm going to block off that area, unless I'm with him every second).

So I'm wondering, since it's all going to be a new situation for him, how to introduce him to these new and different go-potty possibilities (while on a walk, or on the terrace, depending on his level of comfort), and what I can do so that if he does go in the house, it will be a particular place. Like, if I put down newspaper somewhere, would a dog gravitate towards that? I'm thinking of the entrance hallway, which is terrazzo, and better than the wood floors for a mishap, and also far away from where he would sleep or eat, and definitely not a spot that he would spending any time in generally as far as regular living/playing/loving action is concerned.

Or better near the entrance to the terrace? Which is from the bedroom, and ceramic tile, so I don't worry about the floor, but just worry that since it's also the same room he'll probably sleep in, it's not a good thing.

And sleeping! Should I get him a big box with a cutout front, well-padded with blankies and his familiar sleeping material? Or just put his familiar sleeping material straight down on the floor in the bedroom? [edited to say, that he does sleep on the floor of my friend's bedroom now. I wouldn't actually mind if he wanted to sleep in the bed if that's what he does normally, but he doesn't. But if he does decide he feels the need, it wouldn't bother me.]

I've never had a dog before, so I know nothing, but this is a really sweet dog, I'm game to keep him for a two or three weeks, and I'm at home during the day, so no worries about that. And he really likes me a lot, so I don't think he'll freak. But I'd like to make it as good as possible for both of us, so if you have wisdom of any kind - please dispense!

also, about the image I linked to, he did weewee on the rug - at a strange house, on a cold day when doors to outside were closed, after several hours, and only at the point that his mistress went to the bathroom to pee. He peed in front of the closed bathroom door (which happened to have a rug in front of it) at the same time. aw. Everybody was so touched that I had to make a funny. :)
The funny thing about all the dogs I've known is that they pick where they sleep. Give them a pillow, they'll sleep on the floor. I would give the dog a day or two to get used to your house before setting up any fancy dog beds- I have a feeling he'll pick where he sleeps.
posted by ThePinkSuperhero 18 February | 15:28
he does his business mostly outside on the balcony
He sounds like he's used to going outside - or at least to a place where there is no roof - to do his business, so my guess is that if you keep taking him out at regular intervals wherever you want him to go, he'll get the idea pretty quickly. Even if he's on a leash, although some dogs get weirdly modest about that, believe it or not. I used to have to stand as far away as possible and look away and hum for my old dog to be comfortable. However, he's not going to naturally gravitate towards newspapers, no, although you can buy these puppy pad things that supposedly attract them. Never really worked for my dogs. Anyway, my feeling is if he's halfway to being housetrained then do not, for the love of the gods, start him thinking it's okay to go under a roof. There will be accidents. There always are and sometimes they're totally frustrating, but, like with all dog training - and, hell, kid training too - the secret is to always, always, always reward the good behavior. When he does well, whether it's not jumping up or it's peeing outdoors or it's walking nicely on the leash or he comes right away when you call him, praise him liberally and give him a tasty treat. Praise him every time but keep the treats kind of random - dogs, like people, react better to random reinforcement, being naturally contrary and inclined to acts of chaos.

The leash walking thing is just practice, practice, practice and keep on practicing. The main thing and it's horribly tough, is to stop moving altogether whenever they start tugging on the leash. Yeah, this means that for the first few days your walks will be like 8 feet long. It bites but once they twig to the fact that you stop every time the leash gets taut they miraculously become good leash dogs. Except in terribly trying circumstances like evil squirrels taunting them - you just can't expect a puppy to ignore that. ;-)You can probably tie him up to a lamppost outside the store and he'll probably be fine unless you're afraid he might get dognapped, in which case, yeah, carry him.

I'd put his sleeping stuff right down on the floor in your room. Making him a new bed might wig him out - wait until he's used to being with you. When he sees you going to bed he'll get the idea quickly that it's time to sleep.

Good luck! He's adorable!
posted by mygothlaundry 18 February | 16:03
Dogs (usually) want to do whatever they need to do in order to fit in the pack. So just be attentive, and you two (the dog and you) will figure out how to live together to both of your satisfaction.

Don't be reticent about communicating what you want. The dog needs that.

Plus plenty of talk, petting, play, physical contact.
posted by danf 18 February | 16:10
fantastic information! I'm definitely not being over-enthusiastic when I say how much this has helped me already. I generally (I think) have a very good animal aura thing happening (babies, too!), but lack any, any real world experience skills (except cattish).
posted by taz 18 February | 16:17
Teach him to whistle.
posted by essexjan 18 February | 19:16
Great info above. I think danf has given you good info that doesn't normally get passed along:

Dogs (usually) want to do whatever they need to do in order to fit in the pack. So just be attentive, and you two (the dog and you) will figure out how to live together to both of your satisfaction.

I wish somebody had told me this. I'm sure I would have been a much less nervous new pup-mum.

Toys: it might be comforting to have one or two toys from his home. BUT you can also buy a couple toys that'll be at your house only. Dogs, Kaylee anyway, adore new toys and the toys at your house will be new and comforting (once they get his smell on them) each time he visits.
posted by deborah 18 February | 20:16
Exactly what MGL said. It's harder and more exhausting than you think it will be, but also more rewarding than you ever imagined. Take pictures!
posted by rainbaby 18 February | 21:01
I'll take pictures! I'll exhaust you with pictures!

No, I'll try to restrain myself a bit. Anyway, I'm pretty psyched because I've found myself wondering lately if we could ever get a city-sized dog (I mean a smallish, calm dog, that won't feel cramped in an apartment), and if I have the proper temperament for being a dog mummy. So I can kind of find out now.

Maybe. From what I've seen from this boy, though, he's super angelic, so maybe not an ideal guide. Or maybe he'll show me a bit of a devilish side when we're together 24/7. :)

At any rate, even though we're in the city, there's a huge park five minutes away from where we live, a small park three blocks away, and a whole big, cool cemetery four blocks away. So if he likes walks, we can walk.
posted by taz 19 February | 00:35
You'll be fine. Trust me. Been there, done all that. All he'll want is some attention, a place to lie down and feel secure in his little doggie brain, something to chew (toys, see below) and regular food and somewhere to poop. Eat, sleep, play, poop. Simple stuff.

some hints for you though:
-shoes: put them away, behind closed doors. Don't give him a reason to disappoint you.
-grandma's hand made blanket: away
-anything you value :D : away
-garbage can: away, or under something, or something heavy on top of the lid (depending on the design and where you have yours) Garbage smells good.
-he's a puppy. Expect the occasional mess on the floor; if it happens, you were expecting it, if it doesn't: bonus!
-try to take him where other dogs have been. natural marking instinct and all that. Might be a bit too young still, but worth a shot. At the very least he'll smell that other dogs have gone there, and it's cool.

Bit hard to tell from the cropped photo as to his breed(s) but at about a foot long, and 4+ months old, he'll be a small to medium dog. Until I read that, I skipped over your description, saw the red-sleeved hand to head ratio of the photo and though "Oh man, he's going to be one of those big water dogs; they're great!"

expect lots of puppy romping around, slobbery happiness, wiggly bums and love every second of it!!

and do your friend the additional favour of teaching him rough biting it's NOT ALLOWED if it ever happens. (yelp *loud* if his friendly chews and mouthing get at all rough and it hurts. It's to freak him out - honestly shock him to an extent, you get up, turn your back and walk away. You don't want to play anymore. He'll get the idea - he wants to play with you more than he wants to be alone and/or hurt you) It's the only time any of my dogs got "yelled at" and it led to having various breeds being able to take a cookie out of my *lips* with their own teeth without even touching me. Biting is no. Gentle is good. Cookies are yum.
**do not try this with a new dog**

Don't know what this may have done to their doggie psyche's, but it came to mean I could trust them alone in a room with a child and food. Sure, they sat 2 feet from the kid's face, but never a snap, or a grab; just lots of drooling.

posted by Kai 19 February | 06:13
~le sigh~
so much disappeared: please insert around the bit about rough biting: "not meaning to reflect on your friend's pet-parenting skills"
I'm sure your friend is already a wonderful parent; she cares enough to place him with people she trusts instead of fobbing him on into a shelter.
posted by Kai 19 February | 06:21
Thanks very much, Kai. More great info. I'm really grateful to you all for these tips and insights. I think Thursday or Friday will be puppy-comes-to-taz day. Woo!
posted by taz 19 February | 06:39
Whilst taking the dog on a long walk, || Where the hell is matt?

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