I'm happy to offer some cheer, rhapsodie. I think it's always hard when something ends, but really, it can sting even more when the ex moves on. It's not easy to remember that if you do care still, that you would prolly want your ex to find something that couldn't be found with you. It's tough, even when things end under the BEST circumstances.

So, buck up, try to NOT look at anyone's myspace, and continue onward with your life, living it as best you can.

Cheers!

Well anyone is lucky to have YOU! If he did not realize that, I hope the mr. current does.

and I would think that even without the ms. santa outfit

Seconding richat -- don't look at the Myspace stuff. It's just a portal to the dark, downward spiral that is the internet. For right now, think of what's good about the life you have. And then go shopping, or hang out with your buddies, or have a drink with the current person, and do something spontaneous, if you can. Just shake yourself up a little.

I have no idea why I looked up his Myspace. Something about the way my friend mentioned it, and when we were together the only internet stuff he did was Evercrack. Through the whole separation and divorce I was very good about no contact and not ensuring he was handling it all okay - that is not my responsibility anymore, if it ever was. Ugh.

I intended to do something spontaneous tonight with Mr. Current (he'll be happy to know of that nickname, danf!), but ended up taking a nap when I got home from work. Not quite what I had in mind, but I'm feeling better. Thanks!

Maybe he'll experience/create meaningful change. Or maybe he's doing his usual lots-of-attention-in-the-flirting-phase. Either way, he's in your past, and letting go is good. If you must look at his myspace, just remember how much he farted in bed. Good riddance!

boy do I wish my ex would move on.