Venting - Roommate update - so, roomie called a house meeting last night, →[More:]apparently to confront my unfair treatment of him. Some back story
here. It's the same old shit that happened with my last two roommates - "senior" roomie co-opts newcomer and convinces her that she is getting jacked around and they join forces to confront me. All of it is under the guise of "transparency/communication", but really the motivation is to get a piece of what I have, what I created for myself. It just reeks of a spoiled brat. I spent all this money and time (3 years of my life) building this place (from nothing - an empty old doll-making factory) so I could live a little more comfortably and along comes someone who thinks they know everything and are entitled to something.
Senior roomie: "I just was thinking, I've been here two years, and now that ____ is moving out, well, what's going to happen with the space? The rent?"
Me: "What do you mean? Nothing is happening with the space (my friend who is moving out built a music space with me and we shared it. It was a big part of the decision to move here). I've been here six years and built every wall in this place. If you wanna go find an empty space and build walls and get cheap rent, I will not stop you."
Long story short, he has been here 2 years, I let him sublet his room for the summer so he's only been back for 2 weeks and he pulls this "what about me?" crap. He's a musician, and wants to use the space, and he wants his rent to go down. I'm
this close to kicking him out. I should have let him go when I had the chance.
The thing that pisses me off is I let them get rent numbers out of me, when it's really none of their damn business. It's akin to asking someone how much money they make. You don't like your deal? Move the fuck out and let me get someone in who appreciates the place.
The other thing that really pisses me off is once we (me and my wife) move out, he's probably going to get the place. He's been rubbing his damn hands together since he got here. But I suppose at that point, I'll just be glad to have moved on.
So, I'm super stressed, trying to chill a bit and keep my sense of humor. Sorry this is kinda rant-y, let me know if you need me to explain something better. Gimme some thoughts, if you'd care to. Thanks for listening.