Lesson learned Read the fine print - or the big bold print that I probably tossed into a file cabinet and promptly forgot.→[More:] I have been putting off this phone call for weeks, and I'm glad I finally did it, so now I know. I swear I just need someone to hold my hand sometimes, or maybe give me a good shove.

The fiancé offhandedly suggested a quickie wedding so I could get on his health insurance. That's just great: "This wedding sponsored by CompcareBlue."