AskMeCha How do I get my best friend to buckle up when driving his car?
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My best friend doesn't wear a seatbelt while driving. This absolutely boggles my mind, as I can't see any logical reason why one WOULDN'T wear a seatbelt (my dad grew up as a fireman and told me plenty of horror stories of what happens when you don't...). But he doesn't buckle up.
This has been bugging me a lot recently as he has gotten a new car and thus has been doing his share of the driving when we hang out. When I'm driving, the rule is everyone buckles up or the car stays put. If they argue with me about it, I give them two reasons: I don't want anyone dying in my car, and if I get pulled over and get a $70 ticket because they were too damn lazy to buckle up, they're paying the whole thing and I'm not driving them around anymore.
But when he drives, it's his car, and his rules. Therefore, he doesn't have to buckle up. This drives me crazy. I tell him about all the accidents my dad has had to clean up after where the passengers weren't wearing seatbelts, and he always counters it with "well so and so in my family got in a car accident and the police said that if he had been wearing a seatbelt he would have been killed." Horrible logic, I tell him. "That's like saying 'Oh well my grandpa smoked cigarettes since he was three years old and he ran marathons until he died at the age of 106.' That's the exception, not the rule!"
Long story short, is there any way I can convince my friend to buckle up when he's driving his car, short of me driving everywhere? I'd take my car all the time just to make it so he has to buckle up, but I don't think I could afford all the gas. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
I'm also thinking of taking this to AskMe too.