MetaChat REGISTER   ||   LOGIN   ||   IMAGES ARE OFF   ||   RECENT COMMENTS




artphoto by splunge
artphoto by TheophileEscargot
artphoto by Kronos_to_Earth
artphoto by ethylene

Home

About

Search

Archives

Mecha Wiki

Metachat Eye

Emcee

IRC Channels

IRC FAQ


 RSS


Comment Feed:

RSS

14 December 2006

This week I have been yelled at by a homeless person... and then yesterday I got into a bit of a tiff with one of the higher ups in my firm. I'm too sensitive. How do I learn to let things go?
My first inclination was to start a SHOUTING THREAD. I decide to let it go but now I feel lousy.
posted by Lola_G 14 December | 11:49
My advice is to drink heavily and write bad prose or poetry.
posted by jonmc 14 December | 11:55
Lola G... At the very least, understand that this happens to many of us and you're not alone. It's part of the human condition I think.
posted by Doohickie 14 December | 12:17
How does being yelled at by a homeless person make you (in part at least) too sensitive? It can be pretty disconcerting.
posted by danostuporstar 14 December | 12:20
I agree with Doohickie 100%. Be you. We love it. Period.
posted by Joe Famous 14 December | 12:20
I find it helpful to remind myself that the person in question is an irrelevant sack of shit who didn't deserve to be born. YMMV.
posted by bingo 14 December | 12:31
jonmc's advice comes close but I have to agree with bingo most of all. Try to find out something less than flattering about them to keep you amused. For instance, one chap I work with made himself out to be high-profile businessman with several shops, houses and the like. In actuality, he's a hairdresser, and not a very good one at that. Nothing wrong with hairdressers, of course, but he obviously feels shame in it for some reason - so occasionally ask him if he can fit me in for a trim sometime. Try it!
posted by Matt_MP 14 December | 13:53
You guys rock. Thanks!
posted by Lola_G 14 December | 15:38
With the higher up in the firm, some minor bit of revenge can help... "misplacing" his favorite pen, perhaps? (But only if there are no cameras... there are always cameras, dammit... stop looking at me...).

Lola!!! : )
posted by Pips 14 December | 16:32
I like to yell right back. I was waiting for the bus before I was going ot the airport, with a huge suitcase, heavy backpack, and the dog in her case. Right as the bus is coming, a huge truck comes and blocks the bus stop, so the bus has to stop behind it. The other woman waiting for the bus yells at the guys in the truck (with an accent, so it sounded awesome) that they shouldn't have blocked the bus stop and that they were assholes. They were all, come on lady, what are you talking about, you're crazy, so I said, WELL YOU ARE BLOCKING THE BUS STOP AND IT IS PRETTY RUDE. Really loud. :-D
posted by ThePinkSuperhero 14 December | 17:39
This week I have been yelled at by a homeless person... and then yesterday I got into a bit of a tiff with one of the higher ups in my firm.


Being yelled at by someone who may have a serious drug problem, not be completely rational and, in any event, has nothing at all to lose, can be pretty scary.

Getting into arguments with a boss can be scary because they represent your livelihood.

I don't think you're being too sensitive. Not at all.
posted by jason's_planet 15 December | 23:08
Time for another reading roundup! || Official Mecha Hat

HOME  ||   REGISTER  ||   LOGIN