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21 June 2006

Should I hug you? If I come to a meetup and finally get to meet you, can I give you a squeeze? Or would it weird you out to have a stranger touch you? Are you a "hugger"?
You're not a stranger!
posted by danostuporstar 21 June | 14:49
I'm a hugger.
posted by ThePinkSuperhero 21 June | 14:50
Didn't Agro already walk us through this once?

(BTW, I'm a hugger.)
posted by Lipstick Thespian 21 June | 14:51
I'm not sure if I'm a hugger or not, but anyone at Mecha is welcome to hug me.
posted by omiewise 21 June | 14:54
If I come to a meetup

Tease!
posted by amro 21 June | 14:54
I would be a huggee, but would not be the hugger. I'm too shy.
posted by essexjan 21 June | 14:56
I hug tr33s
posted by dabitch 21 June | 14:56
I hug. Probably a few over on MeFi I would not hug but that's why I like it here alot.
posted by fenriq 21 June | 14:56
I'm a very good hugger.
posted by me3dia 21 June | 14:59
Sure. Just try not to grab my ass. I know it's cute, but I'm spoken for.
posted by jonmc 21 June | 15:00
Post a picture and we'll let you know.

Seriously, I'm sure we can all be hugged... at least once. (Bob and weave may apply thereafter.)
posted by StickyCarpet 21 June | 15:00
I am not a hugger, but I live in Berkeley and have had to adapt to a hugging culture. So- either way.

There should be some sort of code for this thing.
posted by small_ruminant 21 June | 15:00
I'm totally a hugger. Hug away! And if you don't want me to hug you, initiate a handshake immediately, so that I get the hint.

I may not get said hint. I may just hug you anyway, and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it. You will like it!
posted by SassHat 21 June | 15:01
Consciously, and if you ask me, I prefer not to be hugged. But subconciously, and if you just do it, I enjoy being hugged.
posted by PinkStainlessTail 21 June | 15:05
Hug away. I can always use one.
posted by shane 21 June | 15:06
Actually I prefer a hug to a handshake, because people don't know their own handshake strength, or else are trying to show how strong they are, and my hand (which has damanged tendons anyway) has been hurt innumerable times in this way.
posted by essexjan 21 June | 15:07
Pro-hugging, if it's civilized, or if I feel I know you well enough to be uncivilized.

If you're elizard, you get cleavage hugs!
posted by matildaben 21 June | 15:08
Consciously, and if you ask me, I prefer not to be hugged. But subconciously, and if you just do it, I enjoy being hugged.


Yes! What PinkStainlessTail said. Whew.

Also, it'd be easier to hug me goodbye than to hug me hello.
posted by rainbaby 21 June | 15:11
Didn't Agro already walk us through this once?


Did he? I must have missed it. Sorry 'bout that.

And jon, you're not on the hug list. You're on the noogie list. (I'm a surprisingly effective noogie giver for only being 5'3").
posted by jrossi4r 21 June | 15:17
You're not a stranger, so it would depend on where your husband and my girlfriend were.
posted by Eideteker 21 June | 15:18
Super hugger. Hug me firmly.
posted by Specklet 21 June | 15:18
Feel free to give me a hug, if you don't mind my tongue in your mouth.
posted by Hugh Janus 21 June | 15:20
He's not kidding. I still treasure that night.
posted by jonmc 21 June | 15:21
I'd love to mash boobies with you, Specklet. Clash of the Tit-ans!
posted by jrossi4r 21 June | 15:22
*lights cigarrette with shaking hands, pops sweat*
posted by jonmc 21 June | 15:23
I want to be a hugger, but for some reason I seem to feel uncomfortable with hugging. Except for my wife and daughters. It's weird. Why can't I just hug?
posted by richat 21 June | 15:25
Sure, hug me. Tall people, just please try not to crack my neck.
posted by chewatadistance 21 June | 15:26
Total hugger AND toucher.
posted by tr33hggr 21 June | 15:48
I'm a handshake guy for the first time I meet someone but I have no problem with hugging someone I know well.
posted by tommasz 21 June | 15:55
I'm pretty much a hugger if I know you, and I can vouch for matildaben's and Specklet's exceptional hugging abilities. I recommend them highly.

but 'tilda's big cleavage hugs are mine, all mine!
posted by elizard 21 June | 16:09
Huuuugs!
posted by smich 21 June | 16:15
I'm a hugger. And have been known to put people's backs back into alignment while hugging.
posted by croctommy 21 June | 16:58
I'm shy.
posted by safetyfork 21 June | 17:12
Croctommy: I could really use some upper back adjusting, and a hug wouldn't hurt... would it?
posted by getoffmylawn 21 June | 17:29
Croctommy's hugs reign supreme. If I could pick him up off the ground, I would.

Speck and Elizard are also excellent huggers.
posted by matildaben 21 June | 17:45
Well that's settled, then. Hugs all around, peppered with the occasional noogie and when applicable, tongue.
posted by jrossi4r 21 June | 17:49
What about ass-squeezing?
One time mats squeezed my ass and it made my night.
posted by Specklet 21 June | 17:53
That ass-squeeze was by proxy for a friend who couldn't be there. (Don't want him to get jealous.)
posted by matildaben 21 June | 18:16
What essexjan said.
posted by mudpuppie 21 June | 18:23
Also a hugger. And I'm an equal opportunities hugger too, so get ready boys.
posted by seanyboy 21 June | 18:31
If you don't hug me, I'll have a hissy fit.
posted by mike9322 21 June | 18:41
I'd totally hug jrossi, and then probably hug other people just because-- but if anyoine got a bit too eager, I'd just as easily get slappy, if need be, but in an amusing way.
posted by ethylene 21 June | 18:53
tommasz I keep forgetting to tell you I liked your locks picture a lot. /derail
posted by chewatadistance 21 June | 19:24
Please, hug me. I am not a hugger, but I do like hugs.
posted by wimpdork 21 June | 22:00
i like a good hug, unless it's really hot and muggy out : >
posted by amberglow 21 June | 22:43
I would be a huggee, but would not be the hugger. I'm too shy.

Ditto and it's awkward not knowing what other people want.
posted by deborah 22 June | 00:26
I would be quite offended if you didn't hug me. And then maybe something to do with duct tape.

I'm kind of a touchyfeely sort, but not overbearingly... I only touch if I have real feelings of affection, and I wouldn't feel that way towards someone who didn't feel something like that for me. Several people have told me that they hate being touched, but loved it from me, so I pretty much trust my instincts.
posted by taz 22 June | 02:03
Hugger, most assuredly. Love to give them, love to get them. It helps if I like the person, though. Hugs for all of you, definitely!
posted by redvixen 22 June | 19:17
At lunchtime today ... || Silver

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