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06 May 2006
Hey Guys! Look what I found! →[More:]
I'm sitting in a hotel room in San Antonio, writing my final final paper of my academic career (eep), and of course instead of writing, I'm looking up famous usernames on UrbanDictionary.
PS, sorry for the unintentional mysogeny in my post. By "guys", I do not mean "humans with penises", but rather "the general group of people towards which I'm talking/typing."
Also, "Dude". These days, when used in direct address it has become fairly gender inclusive ("Dude, what were you thinking!"), but in reference it's always masculine ("I know this dude who blah, blah").
I have trouble figuring out a casual way to address a small group of women. I suppose guys works just fine, but it just seems odd to me. Girls sounds condescending. Ladies is too formal or sarcastic. Gals appears to be the female version of guys, but it is an archaic term.