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02 April 2006
Prayer is Ineffective in helping heart surgery patients recover and actually increased the rate of complications for those who knew they were being prayed for.
Prayer is not for the suffering, it's for the sufferer's loved ones. Let science take care of medical problems and if the families find prayer a balm for the soul, well, I see no reason to take it away from them.
I have mixed feelings about this. I've prayed for some people and those prayers have been answered, so of course I feel like I've helped. But one or two of the times when I felt my prayers should have been answered, they weren't and I felt cheated. One of those times was when a very good Christian female friend of mine lost a baby in her second miscarriage in two years after she and her husband first started trying to have kids. If all my prayers and her family's and her church group's prayers couldn't help a good Christian woman, what good is prayer?
One good thing that came out of the second miscarriage is that they discovered that there was something medically that was causing them so maybe next time they'll be able to have a successful, full-term pregnancy. But it's sad to me that two potential souls had to die in order for them to find this out.