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31 March 2006

Yesterday, on the V train, I finished a book I was reading,[More:]Lawrence Durrell's Reflections on a Marine Venus, a travelogue/memoir/novella of Rhodes just after WWII and just before the British administration handed the islands over to Greece.

It's a tremendous book, full of clear reminiscences and lyrical descriptions of place; perceptive, honest, and self-revealing portraits of people; and extremely evocative emotion and mood.

I finished it somewhere between West 4 and 2nd Ave, and sat with the book gripped tightly in my lap as I wrestled with the strong emotions the book left me.

It must have shown in my face or in my body, the effort to check my feelings for public display (if I was at home I might have cried), because the wrinkly little grey-haired woman in plain dark clothes sitting next to me put a hand on my wrist, and looked at me, and smiled; and we held hands like that until the train reached its terminus and we debarked.

I thanked her as we parted and she smiled with the wordless depth that replaces a common language, and I imagined she was Greek.
Hugh: wow. That's a remarkable story.
posted by Miko 31 March | 11:42
All you bunnies are so touching today. C'mere! *bear hugs*
posted by mike9322 31 March | 11:43
That's a cool story. *gives you a big hug*

The subway trains can be so cool sometimes. On the 7 home, I started talking to this woman who'd gotten on at Queensboro Plaza and we talked about my hopes and dreams about small business ownership, losing friends and family to cancer, and the need to just keep going, no matter what.

Just goes to show that sometimes you should strike up conversations with random people on the subway.
posted by TrishaLynn 31 March | 11:53
It's a wonderful thing when we can break through our barriers in life and connect with strangers. I tend to get a little rush of pleasure from stranger-bonding, even if it's just a brief exchange in the ladies'-room line. We're so isolated so much of the time. This kind of thing gives a sense of the beauty it is to be human, how much we all have to share.
posted by Miko 31 March | 12:04
Beautiful, Janus.
posted by muddgirl 31 March | 12:28
hugh, sounds an interesting book for me. I loved your story. She must have been Greek, we are very expressive people.
posted by carmina 31 March | 12:30
Great story. I take the B/D to the E to the G now, but I won't finish my train book for another week or so (despite the number of transfers it's only a 30 minute trip).
posted by safetyfork 31 March | 13:00
That's the route home, the route in is reversed. You can tell I'm thinking about escape to the weekend already.
posted by safetyfork 31 March | 13:01
That's right, you transfer E-G at 23rd/Ely/Court Square, right?
posted by Hugh Janus 31 March | 13:14
That's a great story, Hugh.

I tend to get a little rush of pleasure from stranger-bonding, even if it's just a brief exchange in the ladies'-room line.

Yes, miko, it makes a difference. Although once, when I made a comment about the most fantastic sunrise coming up over the Millennium Dome to the woman sitting next to me on the train, she got this "Oh my God, the nutter on the train is talking to me" look on her face.
posted by essexjan 31 March | 13:49
Hugh, that's awesome.
posted by Fuzzy Monster 31 March | 13:54
Yep. And, sometimes I'll take the 7 a couple of times a week.
posted by safetyfork 31 March | 14:10
Yeah, that's what I though. I seem to remember exhorting you to throw stones at my domicile, but you know, short-term memory and the zpurb don't always hang together.
posted by Hugh Janus 31 March | 14:29
Though, "thought" works better in that first sentence.
posted by Hugh Janus 31 March | 14:30
Among an unsorted mass of crumpled notes I came upon a few lines about a visit to Calithea last week with Mills and E. A few random impressions of swimming in a dark sea under a clear and moonless sky: 'All around contorted hefts of volcanic rock snarling immobile dragon-snarls. Smell of bitter creeper and cloying jasmine. The dark water warm and salty from a day of south wind. Occasional draughts of cool air and colder currents curling in snake-like from the rock-entrances of the harbour. Hanging there in the sea as if in a web, webbed feet spread, webbed fingers parted, to look back and upwards through wet eyelashes at the star-flowered sky, huge pieces of which slide about like glassy panes, so one can reach up and knock aside the planets. A silence palpitant with quiet voices and the abberant crunch of oars. This silence was not absolute, as if the membranes of the air, damp and sticky mucilage, were glued together with the warm sticky night, reminding one that silence, after all, is only sound in emulsion. Later in an orchard of pears above the harbour a fugitive happiness: thin sweet grapes and mastika.'
posted by Hugh Janus 31 March | 16:16
Great story, Hugh. :)
posted by chewatadistance 31 March | 16:53
What a wonderful connection, Hugh.
posted by deborah 31 March | 19:38
Bringing this topic over here: Were you ever a BBSer? || Since people are in great moods,

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