I quit smoking again and I had a one night tryst with the ex again...

and you didn't even get to smoke afterwards. you gotta plan better.

Yay for the third date! Another yay for heading back to NYC!

am I the only person in the world that hasn't had sex with an ex?

Yes.

No.

Yours, or Schyler523's?

Schyler523 is such a cutie, I'm sure he has a nice ex.

hmmmmmmm.

I quit smoking and had sex with my ex last week. No lie.

No. Not for lack of trying.

At the time, that is. Now I'm happily married of course.

am I the only person in the world that hasn't had sex with an ex?

Define "ex."

i have. but skiing does that to people. it is known as ye olde snow bunny effect.

ex as in you were officially dating. I guess it has to do with the fact that I'm always the "dumper", so in mind-of-gaspode, totally doing them later would be somehow admitting defeat, or some equally fucked up shit.

OK, then I don't count. I was thinking of the girl I lost my virginity with. She was someone else's girlfriend but seduced my naive young ass by saying "I've wanted you since I first saw you."

Then a year later, she had another boyfriend but he was in rehab so she seduced me again for a few weeks, but I screwed someone else* while we were screwing. I figured I was entitled.

*this chick had an ace bandage because she had a bruise from falling asleep with a syringe in her ankle. I kept wonderful company in those days. This is where I got my perspective on life, among other places.

strange. tonight i had my third date with this cool guy that i dig and i'm pretty sure that he digs me, too. but, he has no idea that i'm actually a guy. also, i think i'm going to quit smoking once i'm able to get this darn syringe out of my ankle

Wedge, don't let that or anything come between you two.