subcultures do you jump into or resist being pulled into subcultures?
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I used to be pretty big into reading the OG techie bloggers and political bloggers from like 2003-2006, spending huge amounts of procrastination time doing it and as I seagued more into thiking about tech business and things like that I made a conscious effort to unplug from being the type of person who'd be permanently posted at the (then-nascent) reddit.
I was reading this AskMe thread where someone posted this thing, "the Balloon Juice Lexicon", and it's exactly what I think is the sad space you end up in when you scurry too far down the rabbit hole. These people have been in the political blog scene for so long that they have all sorts of jargon about their enemies and concepts, nasty or defensive in-group stuff that makes sense to people who comment on a political blog 20 times a day.
It's unavoidable to some degree of course, specialization produces jargon both for technical and social reasons. But I think--especially in the commentary sphere--a lot of it is, pardon the vulgarity, 'f---ery and gossip'. You can refresh TechCruch 50 times a day and learn not a thing about building a tech company and you can be immersed in the new york media scene (gawker has something to say about a new yorker writer!) and find not a thing of sustained value in it.
I think I just want to resist being folded into bubbles when the truth is that a lot of it has a NOBODY CARES sign posted over it. That way when a sort of 'idea' or article or concept explodes across that zone of social affinity I'm almost like, I know this is all really exciting but the truth is it doesn't matter to me, I can keep my head straight while y'all fight over this latest drama. It's especially bad when what people have reductive trappings for human behavior and come out with "this is the X syndrome at work!" where the syndrome is just a sort of pop culture trope within a certain community
There's a balance there, you can't be generically not interested or involved in anything, but at the point where you're talking in memes and things in the real world or agonizing about something that is just an abstraction built on an abstraction it's worth unplugging