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10 May 2008

f-ing hippies Is this that getting more conservative as you get older thing?[More:]

So I had that meeting today. Not sacked, tho they aren't happy. Most of their complaints are an absolute surprise to me.

The thing was, the "meeting" took place at a hippy bullshit festival and they kept interrupting it to interact with children, talk to their friends, and so on.

That is NOT how you have a meeting! NOT NOT NOT! Focus, fuckers.

I am really glad to stop and smell the roses etc and if you invited me to the event, fine. But I had places to go and I did not want to chat for five minutes to the stranger you introduced me to while you went off and talked to someone else.

I did talk to her, and my complaint to you shits was not a complaint at all, just a smile (remembered the eyes and all) and the question, "would you like to reschedule maybe?"

I'll have you know that a meeting where you know you're gonna get criticised is much worse for the person getting the criticism, and you can have the shred of respect required to value that person enough to be there for the meeting.

i hate hippies so much. It's so shitty to impose your little children on our meeting, cute as they are. If you don't have time today, let's do it another day, ok? When you have time to sit down in a quiet place with me while we talk and try to work out a solution.

I will so be resigning in the next few weeks, on to the new job.

p.s. My whole series of postings here may make me look like a Problem Person, but I don't care! i'm on this earth to pet kittens, make art and activism, not to work. I'll give The New Job a solid go, and if it doesn't work, maybe I'll bite the bullet and go on incapacity benefit.
also, i am starting with my friend sobiah at a gym next week. that'll be funny! :)
posted by By the Grace of God 10 May | 13:49
I can't emphasise enough how much benefit I've gained from regular exercise in terms of it heping my depression. I notice a real change in my mood when I don't exercise for a few days.

As for the hippies, it sounds as if they are pig-ignorant and would be pig-ignorant whether they are hippies or not.
posted by essexjan 10 May | 13:57
What essexjan said.

Inconsiderate is inconsiderate, hippie or no.
posted by small_ruminant 10 May | 14:23
I am a hippie. I would never inflict this on anyone.
posted by theora55 10 May | 14:37
Regardless of age or background you don't discuss someone's job performance anywhere but in private. What rude pricks.
posted by arse_hat 10 May | 14:53
I've been in the same position and find myself very angry for you.

Their behaviour is wholy unacceptable. No question. That your employers have behaved this way bodes poorly for the way in which they run their business day. You will do well to seek greener pastures. You just can't win with people that have so poorly defined boundaries.

posted by MonkeyButter 10 May | 15:26
We hippies don't really care if you like us. That's what great about hippies. That, the organic food, and the good drugs.
posted by terrapin 10 May | 18:04
My first serious girlfriend was a hippy. Now she is divorced, does affiliate internet marketing, and is marrying a rich dude. I don't say this to be snotty, but I think she found herself and she's happy. I miss my college youth, a little.
posted by craniac 10 May | 18:16
Is this that getting more conservative as you get older thing?

I dunno, but the older I get, the more I find myself really disliking young people. Ihave this incredible urge to slap the dew out of their eyes.

Hippies? Old school original hippies are OK, they generally have good taste in music and have gotten less naive as they've aged. Neo-hippies of the Jamband/BurningMan/Rainbowgathering axis drive me batshit.
posted by jonmc 10 May | 19:18
Have to disagree with you on the old school hippies, jonmc. They're the most sanctimonious, entitled, hypocritical bastards I run into on a regular basis.
posted by small_ruminant 10 May | 19:52
That might be a West Coast thing, s_r. On the East Coast the ones I run into tend to be the people who basicall were into the sex drugs and rock and roll aspects (and the politics extended to wanting to keep their ass out of Vietnam), who liked pot and free love and seeing Cream at the Fillmore but thought that 'revolution,' was bullshit. Guys like my uncles and the older guys I run into.
posted by jonmc 10 May | 20:11
There probably isn't the same critical mass of hippies in New York as there is in the Bay Area.
posted by jason's_planet 10 May | 21:08
I don't know if it's about getting older; I've been telling youngins' to get off my lawn pretty much since birth. Must be a frame of mind thing.
posted by ThePinkSuperhero 10 May | 22:14
WTF?? || So who was Surfer Girl and why did she review Star Wars?

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