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10 June 2007
Living up to your heritage I can't imagine living in the shadows of my family if they came from background like this.→[More:] Have any of you had any family that you've had to live in the shadow of? What was it like?
Kind of - my dad and uncle are both insanely workaholic, and successful high-achieving 'self-made men' types. Me, my sister and my cousins are all either artistic/musical sorts or work in the media, so I guess we unconsciously chose to sidestep any possibility of living in shadows. Either that or we're workshy spoilt brats!
Weird example you chose, though - can't be that hard to live up to a bunch of useless, vile leeching fucks. At least Princess Margaret had the wit to spend her time shagging around and tooting coke.
Well, I'd say possibly. My grandfather was a professor of "mathematics (and) education" at the University of Wisconsin and the University of Chicago, and I always figured I would end up an academic like him, but flunking out of college sort of scotched that. Even worse, I've never gone back for that degree, and it has made some things more difficult for me.
My other grandfather was a hard-working, but not workaholic, auto mechanic and part-owner of a Studebaker shop for many years (it's still there on Broadway in Chicago, last time I checked -- I hope it hasn't been redeveloped since I moved). Seems like a normal immigrant success story, except I found out he left Sweden because of his alcoholic brother, and then his own son (my uncle) became one too. He and my mother haven't spoken since shortly after their father's death.
I don't think that notoriety is the only type of legacy people live in the shadow of, in other words.